Isabella Brooke Knightly and Austin Gamez-Knightly
In Memory of my Loving Husband, William F. Knightly Jr. Murdered by ILLEGAL Palliative Care at a Nashua, NH Hospital
In Memory of my Loving Husband, William F. Knightly Jr. Murdered by ILLEGAL Palliative Care at a Nashua, NH Hospital
My son ( or to you foster son) has lived with me two years. The injustice is him not being adopted yet. His parents keep fighting...yet they cannot take care of him. The only injustice he would see is if he had to go back with his parents. I am who he knows as mother - because it is I, not them, who takes care of him, loves him, hugs him, tucks him in. I do the mothering. Blood is only blood. It is not love. I know. I am adopted. I was in the foster care system. Thank God I was adopted! I look at my life and just know "CPS" would never take a child of mine. I cant even imagine that happening. I mean really when that happens to parents. They should feel shame. Just shame. There has to be a reason every time. I know it must be hard for you you couldnt adopt and your grandchild was adopted. Now that child has parents - something you could not have given you. If my baby were to be placed with his grandparents - well he would never be in a real family. He would also be put with a complete stranger to him. I am his family. Please realize you may be a grandmother, but you are not the child's mother. The child thankfully now has one. Dont fight it and feel your heart with sadness. Know that child is better off. Be happy knowing there are good people willing to give all to your grandchild. I give my all each day as a mother.
ReplyDeleteNo, there isn't ALWAYS a reason a child is taken, other than the greed of CPS.My grandson was with us every day of his life.Why do you think he tried to hang himself? Because he was kept from his grandparent's. Mainly, his Grampie.
ReplyDeleteWe were NOT stranger's to Austin or Isabella. We were told Austin would be with us,where he wanted to be. If the fraud and corruption weren't running so rampant with NH DCYF and court's he would be with us now. And so would Isabella.
Hello, I was contacted by a woman who gave me your blog info. My nephew has mental health issues which led him the threaten my life and his. After being told by the therapist who examined him at a hospital as I ws trying to have him admitted into Philbrook, the attending mental health consultent told me I should not allow this child back into my home for she felt I was not safe. Plans were made for himt o stay with family members, which feel through. I was advised by DCYF that I HAD to take this child home or be charged with neglect. I was informed that if I choose to leave my nephew in DCYF"S care , he would recieve the services he needed but I would be labeled a bad mother. (While he is my nephew he is my son at heart). I choose to get him help. I fully co operated with DCYF in all thier requests and agrred to anythng to get him help. Meanwhile the tests I had been asking for the past 6 months or so were finally being done and the PSCYH paper clearly stated I was not safe in my home with my nephew present and that he needed a very structured enviroment. My DCYF worker told me NOT to show it to the judge as "the judge will have to throw the case out and release the child into your custody, which you won't accpt, so we will be back to square one". I was willing to admit that if leaving my child in their care that would insure he recieved the services he so needs was neglect, then I was guilty. All would have been fine if DCYF used the fact that I was a fraid for my safety, I would still be co-operating. Instead they dug up dirt, made half truths that put them with a halo on and me a pitchfork but most hurtful of all I habe been told I must grieve my husband better and they want me to give them full access to any therapy I might be attending so they can make sure I am grieving right. The report they filed was clouded with issues that were not true. Such as my child try to punch me in the face, yet the goals continually state that I will refrain from any physical disipline in the future. I never laid a hand on that boy. He attacked me. Which was proven. ANyhow I cannot find the ladies name that referred me to your site. I have court in 2 weeks for a review and she advised me not to go alone. I know DCYF is going to make a great issue out of my non comliance with them, even though I am fully involved in his treatment HELP webwillow19@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteChildren are chemnically restrained and put in highly suggestible hynotice state. Pied Piper of Prozac the incedent in Winachee Washington years ago. They are excessively drugging children for profit. It's beome a mery go round. It's out of control. They are placed with abusive foster parents sometimes and violated within those FAMILIES, or they go into group homes where they are drugged excessively or Mental Hospitals. They are not given educations they are dopped up. Too doped up to learn anything.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree. Before my grandson was stolen by DCYF, he was tested in his own neighborhood school for ADHD. They found nothing. It wasn't until he was stolen that he started showing violent behavior and tried to hang himself. He was sent to a psychiatric hospital where the Doctor's stated he did NOT need hospital care. DCYF and the Social worker from the hospital tried to get a waiver to keep him there. He was drugged for violent behavior and sent back to the foster home for a very short time. He was then sent to St. Charles Childrens Home in Rochester, NH and was then drugged for ADHD. Strange isn't it how he didn't have ADHD or violent behavior before he was stolen? It's all about the MONEY!
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