Outside the operating room, Gilchrist is an energetic, frenetic man with a huge sense of humor who stops his machine-gun chatter only when he's ready to deliver his quick, hearty laugh. That guy goes away when Gilchrist, chief of pediatric surgery at Elliot Hospital, dons scrubs and with sure, gifted hands, becomes the man who fixes broken children.
Note: Dr. Gilchrist is definitely a Lifesaver. An exceptional Surgeon and Savior of Children. Elliott Hospital in NH is extremely BLESSED to have such a caring, brilliant Pediatric Surgeon on their staff.
Thank you Dr. Gilchrist for saving my granddaughter's life! We will be eternally grateful!
Dear Unhappy Grammy,
ReplyDeleteI follow your blog. My heart hurts for you and your family. When there is Loving, capable, willing family to step in when parents stumble, I feel it should be mandatory under the law for children to be with them. I do want you to know, just as with any group w/in our society, not all fosters have evil intentions. I'd say the majority truly just want to help children in need. As a former foster/prospective adoptive, I saw and experienced both sides. My daughters birth Mom unfortunately, couldn't conquer her demons and she refused to name any family over a year and a half. My baby has a great grandmother I desperately wanted the baby to meet. Yet, from 3 months until the last time I saw her ( baby was 3 yrs.) she refused to give names. It was her way of control. Last year soon after my baby turned 4, she was placed somewhere else. I never got to say Goodbye. I'm still trying to heal. Just wanted you to know. CPS is an equal opportunity evil!
Lynn, thank you for your compassion and I'm sorry CPS has caused you to suffer also.
DeleteI do realize there are some good Foster's out there. I've met a few since this nightmare began. For the most part, I am extremely aware of how potential Foster's in NH are trained, due to the Foster care classes I enrolled in, hoping to raise my grandchildren. I couldn't believe how badly the bio families were badmouthed. Foster's were warned not to get friendly with the families, because for some reason the families were angry. Well that goes without saying.On one hand DCYF tells the bio families that the Foster's are told not to bond with the children because the children will be reunited with their family. On the other hand, during training, the perspective Foster's are told to bond with the children, because in all probability the child will never be returned. In NH, children and their families aren't normally reunited. In the past few year's, maybe a few. A very few, thank's to their corruption being exposed.
I also found DCYF removes children from the Foster's who become friendly with the bio families.
Also, after reading my blog, I'm sure you are aware that relatives did come forward to take custody of Austin and Isabella. DCYF never asked if there were relatives willing to take them. My daughter's made the request. The family member's were told "Relative placement is not an option." The Court's were told by DCYF no-one wanted the kids. More Fraud! You're right,CPS is evil to everyone. Children included!
Here in CA bio family is supposed to have priority. I have seen instances where this is not respected. During my training, they talk about "...one united group working to reunite families, etc..." As one of my posts said, with the exception of 2, I never felt any of the wreckers I had contact with over 4 yrs. had any time to listen to my questions or concerns. They wanted me to deal with the daily issues of caring for children and for the most part, not bother them. I pray your family is reunited someday. Just as I pray my sweet girl will find my blog someday and contact me. While I wait, I continue to bother the wrecker any way possible and expose them as the garbage they are! Happy blogging! Thank you!
ReplyDeleteBio Family is supposed to have priority here also, but DCYF claims they don't have to follow Administrative Rules because they are not Laws. We are trying to change this. In order for DCYF/CPS to collect Federal funding, relative placement before foster placement is mandated. I guess DCYF is forging the Govt. paperwork just as they do ours. I will keep on exposing the casewrecker's also, the Destroyer's of Children, Youth and Families. I'm sure your little girl will find your blog one day just as I'm sure my grandchildren will find mine. Hopefully they'll be home before that day. I want to make sure they know they were stolen and all the fraud that went with their kidnapping's. Happy Blogging to you also and thank you!
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