After being targeted by CPS/DCYF, life is never the same. The entire family is slandered and thrown to the wolves. The children/grandchildren are taken, never to be seen again. The loss is unbearable.
You go to bed at night, thinking about the children, praying for their safe return, praying no harm comes to them. You wake up in the morning and your first thoughts are about the stolen children. Every day is the same. The despair never ends. A nightmare that just won't quit. You somehow, can now identify CPS/DCYF worker's and Foster strangers everywhere you go. It's like you have a new sense. You always know who they are.
Your life is changed forever. The happiness is gone. Days of depression and anxiety. Tears and despair. Loving memories of the stolen children. Horrifying memories of the children stolen right in front of your eyes. Lost work, after never missing work before the nightmare began. You've become a shell, no longer able to live the happy life you once had.You can't even look at another child without crying. Everywhere you go, you see children. You see Mother's and grandparents pushing their children and grandchildren in carriages and you cry. The pain is never ending. How do you go on living a normal life after your children/grandchildren are stolen by the State? You don't!
You worked all your life, loved and protected your children and grandchildren and always followed the law. You never hurt anyone. You made friends everywhere you went, but for some ungodly reason, CPS/DCYF has targeted your family and you of all people!
False report's are extremely dangerous. They tear apart good families and wreak havoc on a family's well being.You are disrespected and treated like dirt and your family values are in question, even though you've done nothing wrong. You get blamed for the path's your children have taken, even when they're falsely accused. You've worked all your life. Were you supposed to hold your children's hands their entire childhood? Once they become a teen, it's very hard to watch them every minute of every day.
New children are born. Children who will never take the place of the children stolen from your family, but of course you love them more than life itself and you vow to protect them with everything in your being. A new nightmare begins. You constantly watch over your shoulder. You watch all the car's that pull up near your house. The children are forbidden from leaving your sight. Even in your fenced in yard. You're afraid to send them to school. Afraid to let the children out of your sight, for fear they will also be stolen. There is no normalcy. Life is never the same, no matter how hard you try. It just doesn't happen. You never stop thinking about your stolen children/grandchildren and now you have to worry about the new little ones. A never ending nightmare that just won't quit. Will life ever get any easier? I always heard life get's easier as you get older, but don't count on it when your family has been targeted by CPS/DCYF!
Unhappy Grammy
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