Exposing Child UN-Protective Services and the Deceitful Practices They Use to Rip Families Apart/Where Relative Placement is NOT an Option, as Stated by a DCYF Supervisor
"Children never lie". Every time I see that statement I want to scream. Perhaps at one time children did not lie about sexual abuse. Children were innocents who were not exposed to television and the internet,sex was not spoken about at school or home and parents told the story of the birds and bees only on the eve of their child's wedding. That is no longer the world we live in and has not been for a very long time. Children do fabricate stories and will do so if they see it as a means of hurting a parent or other adult who has done some kind of injustice (real or imagined) to them. In 1996 my oldest daughter was determined to leave my home and live with her father. He coached her into running away numerous times and the police shrugged it off never even making her return home until she felt like it. She was 13 and wanted to date an 18 year old guy from school. My husband and I would not let her. We set rules that were not overly strict but ones a rebellious teen would protest. Her father and her went to DCF and claimed my husband had molested her just one time. The story was absurd. She claimed it happened in an air conditioned bedroom where all of her four siblings were sleeping on the floor with her. The room in question never had an air conditioner and we have photos to prove it. My husband would have had to step over all the other children to get to her without waking anyone up. The room is very tiny and a mouse could not walk around if all the children were on the floor. DCF never had this child physically examined and she was never required to go to any type of counseling. Her siblings were forced to go to counseling but not her. We fought back hard and won but it put a severe financial burden on us. Today that daughter is a mom to a beautiful four year old boy who was snatched by DCF last year. Once again all our finances are going to keep this child out of their clutches. They brought up our past history and used that to keep our grandson from seeing us even though we won that case.
Not only do children lie but in many cases they are prompted to do so by child services and/or other adults who are on witch hunts to seek out any reason to destroy families.
"Children never lie". Every time I see that statement I want to scream. Perhaps at one time children did not lie about sexual abuse. Children were innocents who were not exposed to television and the internet,sex was not spoken about at school or home and parents told the story of the birds and bees only on the eve of their child's wedding. That is no longer the world we live in and has not been for a very long time. Children do fabricate stories and will do so if they see it as a means of hurting a parent or other adult who has done some kind of injustice (real or imagined) to them. In 1996 my oldest daughter was determined to leave my home and live with her father. He coached her into running away numerous times and the police shrugged it off never even making her return home until she felt like it. She was 13 and wanted to date an 18 year old guy from school. My husband and I would not let her. We set rules that were not overly strict but ones a rebellious teen would protest. Her father and her went to DCF and claimed my husband had molested her just one time. The story was absurd. She claimed it happened in an air conditioned bedroom where all of her four siblings were sleeping on the floor with her. The room in question never had an air conditioner and we have photos to prove it. My husband would have had to step over all the other children to get to her without waking anyone up. The room is very tiny and a mouse could not walk around if all the children were on the floor. DCF never had this child physically examined and she was never required to go to any type of counseling. Her siblings were forced to go to counseling but not her. We fought back hard and won but it put a severe financial burden on us. Today that daughter is a mom to a beautiful four year old boy who was snatched by DCF last year. Once again all our finances are going to keep this child out of their clutches. They brought up our past history and used that to keep our grandson from seeing us even though we won that case.
ReplyDeleteNot only do children lie but in many cases they are prompted to do so by child services and/or other adults who are on witch hunts to seek out any reason to destroy families.
You are so right.Children are coerced by CPS into telling lies about their families every day. Total scum of the earth!
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