Dead Oklahoma City boy's adoptive mother agrees to serve life in prison
Alibra R. Nichols, 33, of Oklahoma City, pleaded guilty to child abuse, child neglect, enabling child abuse and enabling child neglect. She admitted she struck the boy and failed to provide him proper food and medical care.
Read more: http://newsok.com/dead-oklahoma-city-boys-adoptive-mother-agrees-to-serve-life-in-prison/article/3516333#ixzz15prDr88R
Isabella Brooke Knightly and Austin Gamez-Knightly
In Memory of my Loving Husband, William F. Knightly Jr. Murdered by ILLEGAL Palliative Care at a Nashua, NH Hospital
Saturday, November 20, 2010
For one mother, adoption a rare redemption-Adopts her own daughter
For one mother, adoption a rare redemption
A woman who once lost her parental rights accomplished an uncommon feat Friday: She adopted her own daughter.
BY MAR CABRA
MCABAR@MIAMIHERALD.COM
Read more: http://www.miamiherald.com/2010/11/20/1934871/for-one-mother-adoption-a-rare.html#ixzz15ppn7g3R
A woman who once lost her parental rights accomplished an uncommon feat Friday: She adopted her own daughter.
BY MAR CABRA
MCABAR@MIAMIHERALD.COM
Read more: http://www.miamiherald.com/2010/11/20/1934871/for-one-mother-adoption-a-rare.html#ixzz15ppn7g3R
Friday, November 19, 2010
Teen resident commits suicide at Highland youth facility
Teen resident commits suicide at Highland youth facility
Published: 4:33 PM - 11/18/10
Last updated: 4:34 PM - 11/18/10
HIGHLAND — A 16-year-old boy at the state's Highland Residential Facility killed himself Tuesday, according to authorities.
The youth hanged himself in his room Tuesday night as he waited for his turn to shower, according to a source familiar with the facility. There were no bruises or other signs that would indicate foul play, according to state police in Highland, which conducted the investigation.
Read More:http://www.recordonline.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20101118/NEWS/101119787
Published: 4:33 PM - 11/18/10
Last updated: 4:34 PM - 11/18/10
HIGHLAND — A 16-year-old boy at the state's Highland Residential Facility killed himself Tuesday, according to authorities.
The youth hanged himself in his room Tuesday night as he waited for his turn to shower, according to a source familiar with the facility. There were no bruises or other signs that would indicate foul play, according to state police in Highland, which conducted the investigation.
Read More:http://www.recordonline.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20101118/NEWS/101119787
On the High Rates of Abuse in Foster Care: “Lies, Damn lies, and Statistics.”
On the High Rates of Abuse in Foster Care: “Lies, Damn lies, and Statistics.”
Author: Joshua Allen
Published: November 19, 2010 at 7:57 am
Foster Care is full of statistics - statistics which are used to prove just about anything. Unfortunately, many programs and ideas the author supports are backed by statistical methods and ‘facts,’ which are flawed and manipulative.
Read more: http://technorati.com/politics/article/on-the-high-rates-of-abuse/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+tr-politics+%28Politics+articles+at+Technorati%29#ixzz15lfPbNsa
Author: Joshua Allen
Published: November 19, 2010 at 7:57 am
Foster Care is full of statistics - statistics which are used to prove just about anything. Unfortunately, many programs and ideas the author supports are backed by statistical methods and ‘facts,’ which are flawed and manipulative.
Read more: http://technorati.com/politics/article/on-the-high-rates-of-abuse/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+tr-politics+%28Politics+articles+at+Technorati%29#ixzz15lfPbNsa
Thursday, November 18, 2010
10 Ways Parents Can Prevent Bullying
10 Ways Parents Can Prevent Bullying
Recent events have revealed just how rampant and cruel the bullying problem has become. The days of letting kids work things out by themselves or encouraging them to hash things out by the playground are long gone, as these strategies are proving to be much more dangerous than they once were. One thing is certain — parents play a huge role in the school bullying solution. Whether your kid is the aggressor or the victim, your words and support may be the most important tools in solving the problem. Here are 10 ways parents can prevent bullying:
Talk to Your Kids: You may talk to your kids about homework, grades and school activities every day, but there are bigger issues happening in school that deserve to be discussed, as well. Bullying is a serious topic that parents and kids seem to skirt over far too often. An effective way to prevent bullying is to talk to your children about bullying. Depending on your relationship with your child and their willingness to share, you may have to wait until they approach you instead of prying information out of them. It takes a great deal of courage for your child to tell you that he or she is being bullied, so it’s important that you take it seriously and keep your emotions in check. Reiterate to your child that you want to help end the bullying and prevent it from happening again. Don’t hold back from asking your son or daughter who was involved, how it happened, and where each bullying incident has taken place. The more details you can obtain about the bullying episodes, the greater the chance of putting an end to the abuse when you contact school officials.
Listen to Your Kids: Once you’ve established an open line of communication with your child, it’s so important that you listen intently to what he or she is saying. Listen to the details of your child’s bullying episodes so you can report these facts to school officials. Bullying is a sensitive subject for both the child and parent. You may be tempted to lash out at the bully’s parents or give the school a piece of your mind, but this irrational behavior could make matters worse. Before jumping to action, allow your child to share his or her experiences and simply listen. If your kid hasn’t opened up about being bullied or bullying others, give them a chance to tell you first, but always keep your ears open for anything that’s out of the norm or worrisome.
Look for Signs: Children of all ages have a way of keeping things from their parents, especially when they are being bullied. Your son or daughter may hold back from telling you because they are embarrassed, don’t want to be a "tattletale" or are afraid that you might intervene and make it worse. If you think something could be wrong but your child’s lips are sealed, you should be on the lookout for signs of bullying. You may not necessarily see your child crying or sulking, but there are almost always signs that something is wrong. Victims of bullying often display signs of depression, loneliness and feel sick more than ever. Be observant of any unusual behavior, attitude changes and avoidance of social activities, and gently approach your child about these issues to see if bullying is the cause.
Stop Bullying in Progress: Many adults stay out of bullying incidents because they want kids to work it out together. The problem is kids usually don’t work things out and the bullying only continues to get worse when left alone. Parents can’t be afraid to stop bullying incidents in progress and break things up. Even children can prevent or stop bullying incidents in progress by verbally or physically defending the victim and displaying their moral engagement. Intervening in a bullying incident gives parents a chance to set things straight with both children and protect the victim from further harm. Most bullying incidents take place after school, so a parent might be able to observe a confrontation at this time. Parents should encourage their kids to stop bullying in progress, whether they interject or get a school official to. No one should turn their back on a bullying incident. Period.
Do Not Encourage Physical Retaliation: Never encourage physical retaliation as a means to prevent bullying. No matter how mad you are that your child has been bullied, you can’t fight abuse with abuse. Not only does fighting completely contradict this moral lesson, but it could also get your son or daughter suspended, expelled or make the situation worse. Teach your child to ignore bullies and walk away before anyone gets physical, then report the event to a school official or someone of authority.
Contact School Officials: One surefire way to prevent bullying is to bring it to the school’s attention. Parents should contact school officials, such as teachers, principals and school counselors and give them factual information about the bullying events. It’s important to emphasize that you expect the bullying to stop and will work closely with the school staff to find a solution for your child and other victims of bullying. School officials will contact the parents of the child who was bullying to make them aware of the issue and set up parent-teacher conferences if need be.
Help Your Child be Resilient: As you work with your child and school officials to put an end to the bullying incidents, you can help your child become more resilient to bullying. Shifting their attention towards something positive will help them overcome the emotional effects of being bullied. You should encourage your kids to develop new talents or participate in positive activities, such as art, sports or music to highlight their positive attributes and help them make new friends outside of class.
Teach Moral Values and Give Love at Home: As a parent, you have a direct influence on your child’s social behavior, beliefs and treatment of others. Children who bully generally come from homes that lack warmth, supervision and parent involvement, and emphasize harsh, physical discipline and bullying. It’s never too late for parents to teach moral values and ethical behavior to their kids. Children should feel safe and loved in their home, and there should always be open lines of communication between parents and their children. In order to prevent bullying, you can’t allow bullying in your household either.
Set Clear Rules in Your House: If your son or daughter bullies other children, you need to take this issue very seriously and nip it in the bud before it worsens. Parents of bullies should take an active role to stop bullying and prevent it. One way to curb bullying is to set clear rules in your house and make it clear that bullying will not be tolerated under any circumstances. In addition, teach children about genuine empathy and help them understand the impact of their behavior.
Join or Start a Bullying Prevention Group: Parents can stay involved in the school’s efforts to prevent bullying and take a proactive stance on this serious issue. You can do so by joining or starting a bullying prevention group that puts this real life issue into perspective for parents. No one person can stop bullying alone, nor should it be the sole responsibility of a school official. Parents, teachers, principals, administrators and counselors should work together to prevent bullying at schools. They can meet to discuss bullying issues at the school and report incidents, as well as plan bullying prevention rules, policies and activities that will make a difference in the culture of the school.
http://www.criminaljusticedegreesguide.com/features/10-ways-parents-can-prevent-bullying.html
Recent events have revealed just how rampant and cruel the bullying problem has become. The days of letting kids work things out by themselves or encouraging them to hash things out by the playground are long gone, as these strategies are proving to be much more dangerous than they once were. One thing is certain — parents play a huge role in the school bullying solution. Whether your kid is the aggressor or the victim, your words and support may be the most important tools in solving the problem. Here are 10 ways parents can prevent bullying:
Talk to Your Kids: You may talk to your kids about homework, grades and school activities every day, but there are bigger issues happening in school that deserve to be discussed, as well. Bullying is a serious topic that parents and kids seem to skirt over far too often. An effective way to prevent bullying is to talk to your children about bullying. Depending on your relationship with your child and their willingness to share, you may have to wait until they approach you instead of prying information out of them. It takes a great deal of courage for your child to tell you that he or she is being bullied, so it’s important that you take it seriously and keep your emotions in check. Reiterate to your child that you want to help end the bullying and prevent it from happening again. Don’t hold back from asking your son or daughter who was involved, how it happened, and where each bullying incident has taken place. The more details you can obtain about the bullying episodes, the greater the chance of putting an end to the abuse when you contact school officials.
Listen to Your Kids: Once you’ve established an open line of communication with your child, it’s so important that you listen intently to what he or she is saying. Listen to the details of your child’s bullying episodes so you can report these facts to school officials. Bullying is a sensitive subject for both the child and parent. You may be tempted to lash out at the bully’s parents or give the school a piece of your mind, but this irrational behavior could make matters worse. Before jumping to action, allow your child to share his or her experiences and simply listen. If your kid hasn’t opened up about being bullied or bullying others, give them a chance to tell you first, but always keep your ears open for anything that’s out of the norm or worrisome.
Look for Signs: Children of all ages have a way of keeping things from their parents, especially when they are being bullied. Your son or daughter may hold back from telling you because they are embarrassed, don’t want to be a "tattletale" or are afraid that you might intervene and make it worse. If you think something could be wrong but your child’s lips are sealed, you should be on the lookout for signs of bullying. You may not necessarily see your child crying or sulking, but there are almost always signs that something is wrong. Victims of bullying often display signs of depression, loneliness and feel sick more than ever. Be observant of any unusual behavior, attitude changes and avoidance of social activities, and gently approach your child about these issues to see if bullying is the cause.
Stop Bullying in Progress: Many adults stay out of bullying incidents because they want kids to work it out together. The problem is kids usually don’t work things out and the bullying only continues to get worse when left alone. Parents can’t be afraid to stop bullying incidents in progress and break things up. Even children can prevent or stop bullying incidents in progress by verbally or physically defending the victim and displaying their moral engagement. Intervening in a bullying incident gives parents a chance to set things straight with both children and protect the victim from further harm. Most bullying incidents take place after school, so a parent might be able to observe a confrontation at this time. Parents should encourage their kids to stop bullying in progress, whether they interject or get a school official to. No one should turn their back on a bullying incident. Period.
Do Not Encourage Physical Retaliation: Never encourage physical retaliation as a means to prevent bullying. No matter how mad you are that your child has been bullied, you can’t fight abuse with abuse. Not only does fighting completely contradict this moral lesson, but it could also get your son or daughter suspended, expelled or make the situation worse. Teach your child to ignore bullies and walk away before anyone gets physical, then report the event to a school official or someone of authority.
Contact School Officials: One surefire way to prevent bullying is to bring it to the school’s attention. Parents should contact school officials, such as teachers, principals and school counselors and give them factual information about the bullying events. It’s important to emphasize that you expect the bullying to stop and will work closely with the school staff to find a solution for your child and other victims of bullying. School officials will contact the parents of the child who was bullying to make them aware of the issue and set up parent-teacher conferences if need be.
Help Your Child be Resilient: As you work with your child and school officials to put an end to the bullying incidents, you can help your child become more resilient to bullying. Shifting their attention towards something positive will help them overcome the emotional effects of being bullied. You should encourage your kids to develop new talents or participate in positive activities, such as art, sports or music to highlight their positive attributes and help them make new friends outside of class.
Teach Moral Values and Give Love at Home: As a parent, you have a direct influence on your child’s social behavior, beliefs and treatment of others. Children who bully generally come from homes that lack warmth, supervision and parent involvement, and emphasize harsh, physical discipline and bullying. It’s never too late for parents to teach moral values and ethical behavior to their kids. Children should feel safe and loved in their home, and there should always be open lines of communication between parents and their children. In order to prevent bullying, you can’t allow bullying in your household either.
Set Clear Rules in Your House: If your son or daughter bullies other children, you need to take this issue very seriously and nip it in the bud before it worsens. Parents of bullies should take an active role to stop bullying and prevent it. One way to curb bullying is to set clear rules in your house and make it clear that bullying will not be tolerated under any circumstances. In addition, teach children about genuine empathy and help them understand the impact of their behavior.
Join or Start a Bullying Prevention Group: Parents can stay involved in the school’s efforts to prevent bullying and take a proactive stance on this serious issue. You can do so by joining or starting a bullying prevention group that puts this real life issue into perspective for parents. No one person can stop bullying alone, nor should it be the sole responsibility of a school official. Parents, teachers, principals, administrators and counselors should work together to prevent bullying at schools. They can meet to discuss bullying issues at the school and report incidents, as well as plan bullying prevention rules, policies and activities that will make a difference in the culture of the school.
http://www.criminaljusticedegreesguide.com/features/10-ways-parents-can-prevent-bullying.html
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Norwich man charged with sex attack on social worker
Norwich man charged with sex attack on social worker
By: Tyler Murphy, Sun Staff Writer
Published: November 17th, 2010
NORWICH –The Norwich Police charged a city resident with a number of crimes Friday after he allegedly assaulted and sexually accosted a social worker sent to visit his children.
Officers arrested 26-year-old Shawn Fowlston of 58 Birdsall St., Norwich, Friday afternoon and charged him with first degree sexual abuse, a D class felony, forcible touching, second degree unlawful imprisonment, third degree assault and fourth degree criminal mischief, misdemeanors.
Appearing briefly in Norwich City Court Tuesday, Fowlston waived his right to a felony hearing and is now scheduled to go before a Chenango County grand jury.
Read More:http://www.evesun.com/news/stories/2010-11-17/10934/Norwich-man-charged-with-sex-attack-on-social-worker/
By: Tyler Murphy, Sun Staff Writer
Published: November 17th, 2010
NORWICH –The Norwich Police charged a city resident with a number of crimes Friday after he allegedly assaulted and sexually accosted a social worker sent to visit his children.
Officers arrested 26-year-old Shawn Fowlston of 58 Birdsall St., Norwich, Friday afternoon and charged him with first degree sexual abuse, a D class felony, forcible touching, second degree unlawful imprisonment, third degree assault and fourth degree criminal mischief, misdemeanors.
Appearing briefly in Norwich City Court Tuesday, Fowlston waived his right to a felony hearing and is now scheduled to go before a Chenango County grand jury.
Read More:http://www.evesun.com/news/stories/2010-11-17/10934/Norwich-man-charged-with-sex-attack-on-social-worker/
America's Most Wanted - Investigation!!!!
HURRY, Fill out the information and send it in; this is FOR REAL!! John wants 50,000 people to launch and investigation!!! GET R DONE!!
--- On Mon, 11/15/10, Michigan for Parental Rights wrote:
From: Michigan for Parental Rights
Subject: America's Most Wanted - Investigation/Amber Alert Form
To:
Date: Monday, November 15, 2010, 4:55 PM
cjb
www.abusefreedom.com
abusefreedomunited
803 438 8119
God takes men's hearty desires and will, instead of the deed, where they have not power to fulfill it; but he never took the bare deed instead of the will.
--- On Mon, 11/15/10, Cheryl Kennedy wrote:
From: Cheryl Kennedy
Subject: America's Most Wanted - Investigation/Amber Alert Form
To: "Jane Boyer", contact@modelfamily.org
Date: Monday, November 15, 2010, 7:47 AM
Dear Jane Boyer and Joise Perez,
As per our conversations attached is a form to be completed by families who've had a child or children
kidnapped or abducted by a CPS Agency and a U.S. Court. Please submit this email and form to parents or grandparents
that would be interested in seeking an investigation and return of their children. Cases in a similar location would be good too!
A few weeks ago I began taking up issues with John Walsh of America's Most Wanted and U.S. Marshalls for correspondence with Attorney General Eric Holder to make these crimes a category under Amber Alert. Many families have heinously been harmed over the years due to excessive CPS/Court corruption with no assistance by anyone.
I make the request that families return the attached completed investigation form to all three of us by email.
Families please email your investigation form to:
Jane Boyer - jane@abusefreedom.com
Josie Perez - contact@modelfamily.org
Cheryl Kennedy - ckennedyfcr@gmail.com
We are seeking 5 to 15 investigative requests to begin this project.
Thank you for your assistance and many blessing to you and your families.
Cheryl Kennedy
--
Dennis Lawrence
http://vimeo.com/channels/112287 MPR Video Channel
www.miparentalrights.ning.com Social Network
miparentalrights@gmail.com E-mail Address
616-848-0664
Attachment(s) from Cecile Allcock
1 of 1 File(s)
Humantrafficking-AmericasMostWanted.doc
HUMAN TRAFFICKING INVESTIGATION
CPS AGENCY/COURT RELATED CHILD KIDNAPPING/ABDUCTION
AMBER ALERT REQUEST
I request John Walsh of America’s Most Wanted, Attorney General Eric Holder, U.S. Marshall’s and any other pertinent investigative parties to review my court case(s) for child kidnapping and abduction that occurred with a CPS Agency & a U.S. Court. I seek my children or my grandchildren be returned to our family immediately and our family should be restituted for our tragic harm due to corruption in U.S. Government services.
Date:
Type your name for your signature:
Please type all pertinent information:
Your name:
Your phone number:
Your email address:
Child or children’s names:
Your relationship to the child or children:
Where was the child kidnapped or abducted from and by whom if known:
Name of County, Town and State where this occurred:
Name of agency that kidnapped or abducted children:
Name any specific individuals involved at the agency:
Name of Court(s) and cases numbers:
Name of Judges or other parties that are involved:
How many years have you been fighting in courts to get your family back?
Please make any special notes that should be known for this investigation, be brief:
Once this form is completed, please send back in an email to the designated parties assisting to have this matter investigated. We seek to make a submission to John Walsh at America’s Most Wanted and other parties by November 18, 2010, time is of the essence. John Walsh is presently doing shows on Human Trafficking and stories are needed to prove these tragedies happening to families.
Thank you,
--- On Mon, 11/15/10, Michigan for Parental Rights
From: Michigan for Parental Rights
Subject: America's Most Wanted - Investigation/Amber Alert Form
To:
Date: Monday, November 15, 2010, 4:55 PM
cjb
www.abusefreedom.com
abusefreedomunited
803 438 8119
God takes men's hearty desires and will, instead of the deed, where they have not power to fulfill it; but he never took the bare deed instead of the will.
--- On Mon, 11/15/10, Cheryl Kennedy
From: Cheryl Kennedy
Subject: America's Most Wanted - Investigation/Amber Alert Form
To: "Jane Boyer"
Date: Monday, November 15, 2010, 7:47 AM
Dear Jane Boyer and Joise Perez,
As per our conversations attached is a form to be completed by families who've had a child or children
kidnapped or abducted by a CPS Agency and a U.S. Court. Please submit this email and form to parents or grandparents
that would be interested in seeking an investigation and return of their children. Cases in a similar location would be good too!
A few weeks ago I began taking up issues with John Walsh of America's Most Wanted and U.S. Marshalls for correspondence with Attorney General Eric Holder to make these crimes a category under Amber Alert. Many families have heinously been harmed over the years due to excessive CPS/Court corruption with no assistance by anyone.
I make the request that families return the attached completed investigation form to all three of us by email.
Families please email your investigation form to:
Jane Boyer - jane@abusefreedom.com
Josie Perez - contact@modelfamily.org
Cheryl Kennedy - ckennedyfcr@gmail.com
We are seeking 5 to 15 investigative requests to begin this project.
Thank you for your assistance and many blessing to you and your families.
Cheryl Kennedy
--
Dennis Lawrence
http://vimeo.com/channels/112287 MPR Video Channel
www.miparentalrights.ning.com Social Network
miparentalrights@gmail.com E-mail Address
616-848-0664
Attachment(s) from Cecile Allcock
1 of 1 File(s)
Humantrafficking-AmericasMostWanted.doc
HUMAN TRAFFICKING INVESTIGATION
CPS AGENCY/COURT RELATED CHILD KIDNAPPING/ABDUCTION
AMBER ALERT REQUEST
I request John Walsh of America’s Most Wanted, Attorney General Eric Holder, U.S. Marshall’s and any other pertinent investigative parties to review my court case(s) for child kidnapping and abduction that occurred with a CPS Agency & a U.S. Court. I seek my children or my grandchildren be returned to our family immediately and our family should be restituted for our tragic harm due to corruption in U.S. Government services.
Date:
Type your name for your signature:
Please type all pertinent information:
Your name:
Your phone number:
Your email address:
Child or children’s names:
Your relationship to the child or children:
Where was the child kidnapped or abducted from and by whom if known:
Name of County, Town and State where this occurred:
Name of agency that kidnapped or abducted children:
Name any specific individuals involved at the agency:
Name of Court(s) and cases numbers:
Name of Judges or other parties that are involved:
How many years have you been fighting in courts to get your family back?
Please make any special notes that should be known for this investigation, be brief:
Once this form is completed, please send back in an email to the designated parties assisting to have this matter investigated. We seek to make a submission to John Walsh at America’s Most Wanted and other parties by November 18, 2010, time is of the essence. John Walsh is presently doing shows on Human Trafficking and stories are needed to prove these tragedies happening to families.
Thank you,
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