Sunday, March 8, 2015

Foster/Adoptees Forbidden Lives

Did you ever wonder what life is like for Foster and Adopted children? The children forcefully removed from their biological families? Forced to live with stranger's? Taken away from everyone and everything they know and love? Familial bond's severed. Favorite pet's and toy's ALL gone.
Many of these children drugged to make them forget where they came from. Drugged to make them forget the families who love them. The families still waiting for their return. Drugged to control the violent behavior they now have, after being ripped away from their entire families. Drugged just so CPS and the stranger's don't have to deal with their new found behavior's.
Do you even realize how hard it is for a Foster/Adoptive child to fit in? How can the child fit in when he/she is forbidden from doing the things other children do? They are forbidden to do what other kids do to keep them out of sight of their biological families. Not allowed to just be a kid. Not allowed to to have account's on Social networks. Not allowed to go out and have fun with the other kids. Forbidden from having a life.
How do you think this makes these children feel? I'm sure they feel like they're being punished. I'm sure they feel like they did something wrong. Like it's their fault they're kept, more or less, under lock and key. They want lives like all the other children have. They don't want to be hidden away from the world.
Does this sound like any way for child to live? To grow up full of hate? To grow up believing their families didn't want them, because this is what CPS and the Foster stranger's drill into their heads? To grow up feeling like they don't belong, because in all actuality they don't. They don't belong in the family of stranger's. Even if they were stolen at a very young age, they still know they don't belong and will grow up to hate the lives they've been forced to live. The Forbidden lives that the State forced them to live.
If these children want to find their biological families bad enough, they will. No-one will stop them. All the brainwashing in the world won't stop the child from hunting down his/her biological family. Familial bond's, no matter how hard CPS try's, can never be broken.

Unhappy Grammy

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