Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Julia Steiny: Why ‘Bad’ Moms Still Should Parent Their Kids

GoLocalWorcester | News | Julia Steiny: Why ‘Bad’ Moms Still Should Parent Their Kids:

In her own opinion, Dr. Brenda Harden has made serious mistakes with other people's lives. 
Thirty years ago Harden was a front-line social worker for Child Protective Services in New York City, frequently removing children from troubled, violent, or drug-addled homes. But now, as an Associate Professor at University of Maryland College Park, she develops remedies for what she now considers to be flat-out damage inflicted on vulnerable children. 
"But such babies plunge into mourning. They can't express deep loss in ways adults recognize, but mourning it is. Babies know and love the sound of Mom's voice, smell, her familiar movements. Mom is inevitably the first relationship. The health or weakness of that bond affects kids' capacity to attach to others in healthy ways going forward. Strong mother-child attachments give kids a resilient, socially healthy start in life. Weak, screwed-up, or broken early attachments often lead to a range of future problems, including attachment disorders, depression, and other mental health issues. "
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