Richard Gardner's definition of Parental Alienation is exactly what we have been living-Samantha Haas

Richard Gardner's definition of Parental Alienation is exactly what we have been living

Although most people on here have no idea who we are and how we raise our family, they should know that not only are two little girls being hurt by this but so are the two children we have at home who never get to see them. Our youngest, 2 years old, has never met their sisters. Why?
It's not about the money folks, my husband has shown more than enough proof how much he pays for his children.

It's about the emotional neglect these children have been exposed to, because their father wants a relationship with them, their mother has never supported it nor worked together for shared parenting, always made the visitation and exchanges difficult with the children witnessing the whole time, and not one person in the court nor the GAL reviewed evidence or stepped in to protect these children.

I'm sure where they live is very nice and they wear nice clothes. I'm sure they have every toy known to man, and are active in every extra-curricular activity there is. I'm sure these kids are not suffering financially by any means, as with their mother's salary, their $30,000 per year child support and all additional financials that their mother has.

They are suffering emotionally. They have been brainwashed into thinking their father abandoned them, and he loves his "new family" more then them. Who can do that to a child?

This will hurt them forever. Their mother has built the foundation for the children to never offer her forgiveness, when she has had every opportunity to co-parent and "get along" for the sake of the children. Bitterness apparently took over, and even two innocent kids couldn't prevent their mom from wanting to hurt their dad.

My husband had a right to move on from his divorce, remarry and have another child. How many people in the state are divorced? How many have moved on and remarried? This isn't news people. The news is that the NH Court System has failed to recognize Parental Alienation and has allowed a mother to withhold two children from their father, without a court order backing it up.
To their Mother, the NH Family Court & GAL: The children are growing up. They will remember everything. They will learn everything as they grow. They will learn the truth that their father, myself, their sister, stepbrother, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends NEVER abandoned them.

You have held money over my husband's head, turned everything he has said around, took advantage that he could not afford an attorney, abused him verbally and physically during exchanges of the children, falsified police reports, lied to the courts, sent him to jail after he offered you an additional 17% of his monthly commissions, withheld evidence to the court of the mom's instability and the abuse against my husband, and have tried everything in your power to hurt our family and lead the children to believe that they are not loved by this side of their family.
It is shameful what you have done.

No matter how much money you have, or how much money you get....it will never replace the pain you have caused the children. They deserve to have us in their lives and you know it. It took being a bigger person for them, to get along with the other parent for their sake, and you couldn't do that for them.

You might think you are always in the right, like my husband owes you something because you are angry. What are you so angry about? Have you ever asked yourself that question? Maybe it's time you did. You hold onto this anger and bitterness and it has not only hurt everyone involved, what about what you're doing to yourself????

To my husband's exwife, we pray for you all the time. It can't be easy to carry around the burden of anger on your shoulders every day, passing it on to the children. Forgiveness is a powerful thing. It will allow you the freedom to a better, happier life. Maybe then you will find someone special to share your life with, instead of spending it stalking my family.

Do the right thing. The kids depend on you, not the money....they depend on you to do the right thing. It's not about how YOU feel about Mr. Haas, it's about how the KIDS feel about him. And because of your selfish choices, your children have to go through the pain of rebuilding a relationship with their father. A relationship that should've never been broken in the first place. And you know exactly why it has come to this. Do the right thing.

The only way we have been able to keep track of what the children look like is to contact the school photographer on our own every September to order our own set of their school pictures because we are never notified when it's picture time or if we would like to order any. They are beautiful little girls, had no idea they got their ears pierced or that the oldest wears glasses now!

My husband has had to grieve over two children who are still alive, and two children have been led to believe he wants nothing to do with them. I believe this would be the definition for emotional abuse.

Samantha Haas
Hooksett, NH
603-858-6634